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Friday, July 30, 2010

Don't

All my life I've tend to let people walk over me too much. But I've learnt the hard way that being too nice never helps. Remember that you are born alone and you will die alone. So let me share some of the Don'ts I've learnt through many experiences.


Don't lose your self respect and dignity.
Don't let anyone treat you badly or put you down ever.
Don't let anyone overpower you or treat you in any wrong way.
Don't believe in rumors or gossips and assume that you are just hearing one side of the story.
Don't give your word if you can't keep it.
Don't show attitude and act cocky to people you've just met as first impression always matters a lot in any relationship.
Don't be a self-obsessed loudmouth and boast of your achievements.
Don't use flattery as ass-lickin won't help you in the long run.
Don't be ashamed to say I'm sorry.
Don't leave this page without leavin a comment. ;)

13 comments:

Arundhati Chatterjee said...

Wonderful.. truly honest !
by the way..add a few more..
DON'T GIVE ANYBODY PRIORITY IN UR LIFE IF THEY CONSIDER U AS ONLY AN OPTION !
DON'T TRY TO PLEASE ANYBODY ... BE YOUR REAL TRUE SELF...
Most imp lessons learnt till date !

Rafaa Dalvi aka Mr.Charismatic said...

I agree that these are some really valuable lessons one must learn and follow.

Fatima said...

Wonderful and true to d core...
just smthng wch u learn down d journey of life !!

which shape ur future....thy've done mine !

Meher....all out to explore..!! said...

Nicely observed and put..!!

Aditi said...

first three mean d same thing...but good to know ppl realize such things at an early age...nice....

kajal said...

Wonderful Rafaa. I guess we discussed all this the last evening we met over a heart to heart conversation. You have a superb flair so DON'T USE SLANG AND SPOIL THE ESSENCE OF WRITING.

LOVE- Raina Miss.

Rafaa Dalvi aka Mr.Charismatic said...

@fatima
ya they shape evrybody's future

Rafaa Dalvi aka Mr.Charismatic said...

@meher
thnx :)

Rafaa Dalvi aka Mr.Charismatic said...

@aditi
u talk as if I've some child...let me remind you that we both are of da same age...neways thnx :)

Rafaa Dalvi aka Mr.Charismatic said...

@raina ma'am
yes ma'am v really did speak a lot n after tht conversation I thought a lot and decided that life is not what it seems...its too complex but if we do things in an appropriate way,we can lead an almost perfect life...will try not to use slang in my writings from nw on :)

Anonymous said...

hey rafaa good job bro......its better if you learn these lessons early in life....... bravo

surabhi

Rafaa Dalvi aka Mr.Charismatic said...

@surabhi
thnx didi :)

Aayesha Hakim said...

DONTS worth remembering ;)

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